Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Tonya Hacker..at it again

Here is my dramatic story this week.
I had an argument with a lady named Tonya Hacker. She was telling some friend of hers that I was abusing my girlfriend and this friend of Tonya's came at me and my girlfriend like a lunatic. She went on rants to us in emails saying I was going to be raped by satan and a bunch of other crazy shit. We didn't know where this crazy woman was getting her information so we started asking people we thought were our friends. Tonya was one of them. Tonya at first denied knowing anything...then we informed her that other friends of hers had assured her she did know this lunatic. Then Tonya admitted she had been talking about me to her crazy friend. All the emails are documented in one of my blogs which was written on April 2nd 2010. I wrote that blog and left it alone after that.
Last week my girlfriend, Polly was contact by another person we thought was our friend named Amanda. Amanda told Polly that Tonya had contacted her to have Polly tell me to remove Tonya's name from my blog titles. Tonya was looking for a job and my blogs came up when her name was searched on google. I thought about it and figured I had said my peace so I would change the titles. I did. Not long after a couple of pages making fun of and just plain hating The Ghost Divas popped up. Tonya and Amanda are members of the Ghost Divas. While I was not fond of Tonya still I did not think what was being done and said was fair. I contacted one of the page creators and he agreed to remove the page making fun of the Divas, it portrayed them as pigs.
Then I went to the creator of the other site and started to talk smack about how the guy was off base in his hate of the Divas in this case. I had dealt with this guy before and used the appropriate methods (with help from others) to try and get him to remove the page, it worked.
Tonya contacted me about how I had gone about getting the pages removed and I told her. She asked for a recording of the call, I didn't have one and even if I did it was over so why she asked for it made the little voice in my head say...."look out, she wants more drama"
The day after the pages went away I got a ranting email from Tonya about how I had not changed the blog titles. I had changed the titles but I had not gone through the emails and removed her name from the emails she had sent, besides it takes time for goggle to update search findings sometimes. I do not have control over the google search engine.
I told Tonya I would look and make sure they were changed...before I could Amanda sent a reply. (she had been copied in) Amanda's reply was that both Polly and myself were liars.
Like I said, we had considered Amanda a friend and were shocked that she would accuse us of being liars. Why would I lie, and what had Polly said which could be considered a lie? She had just passed the request on to me.
Some emails went back and forth and I had grown tired of Tonya's rants and accusations. I then informed her I would be changing the titles back, after all she obviously had no trust in the fact I had done so when she ask yet she called a liar so what would the difference be?
I then tried to call Tonya...to address this. She in true form avoided the call. So I left her a voice mail telling her to fuck off I was sick of her shit. She had started this whole mess by telling lies about me.
Then Tonya proceeds to go to her webpage and start cackling about how I give my daughter booze and weed. I don't know where to get any weed because I don't smoke it. As far as the booze goes my daughter has come home drunk a couple of times, she is 17. I did the same thing when I was her age and it was dealt with in the way I saw fit so that it would not happen again.
Any real parent know when your kids get to a certain age you can not control their behavior at all times. I guess Tonya is not aware of this even though she has two children.
Then today I hear from my friends Tonya is posting on her Ghost Divas facebook page that I had been to prison and that I was stalking her. I have not been to prison. I have been to jail a couple of times but it was a city jail, and the the second time the charges were dropped. None of my crimes were any more than health code violations meaning I went to jail for crimes of substance abuse. I learned to change my behavior and I am doing very well at sticking with those changes.
The thing that strikes me as odd about all of Tonya's claims about me is she lives in Oklahoma.....I live in California. I met Tonya one time in person for about an hour. She didn't ask me my life story...to be honest she was having an issue controlling her youngest daughter and was a bit distracted.
How Tonya managed to believe she has intimate knowledge about my personal life...well I don't know she seems to just make things up at random.
There are a couple of things which bother me the most about Tonya and her need to lie and create drama. It drags the rest of the Ghost Divas down....I do not hate all the Divas, but I will not allow them in any form to come up on me as a group unchecked. Tonya seems intent on making this happen. The only reason I can think is because Tonya likes drama.
Another thing is the fact that Tonya is supposed to be an adult and responsible for her actions...she has lied and I have told the truth. when I called her on it she starts to tell more lies and cry like a little child, it is pathetic.
Now it seems Tonya will be playing my voice mail on her radio show, I hope she does I am glad I could provide her another way to show her true form.She had after all been searching for a phone call to play before I called her, hadn't she? My little voice tells me "I told you so"
Now I am done unless Tonya wants to continue this...it is her choice.
That concludes this week's drama....I hope

22 comments:

  1. I'd really like to know how I lied.

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  2. Tonya, you must enjoy Reaps "Stalking" since you continue to talk your bullshit on FB! Sweetheart, we don't need to stalk you. You have enough people that hate your self centered neediness that they tell us the lies you tell. If you don't want to deal with him, then shut your fucking mouth.

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  3. She is so "frightened" of Reap the criminal she had no problems letting him in her house.

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  4. Ahhh I see Tonya's up to her usual drama fest. Maybe some day the rest of the divas will see she gives them a bad name.

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  5. Fuck her Reap, their show sucks anyways. It should be called the Tonya talks to much show.

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  6. Ha Ha! She called your show "A crappy ass internet show" has she listened to her own? All she does is flap her gums, talks over everyone about herself, and half the time has technical issues. It's a verbal train wreck. Shermer called, he wants his waste of time back.

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  7. I heard Reap Sow escaped from death row at San Quentin after being convicted of killing a radio talk show host and chopping her up into little pieces and burying her in a shallow grave outside of some shithole little town in Oklahoma. BUT I COULD BE WRONG.

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  8. lol Don't say that, it might be posted on her page as the truth.

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  9. Per Tonya Hacker "Funny thing is.. he's not a "paranormal" guy in a sense that he does paranormal research. In fact. he's done not a thing that can be tracked or traced. Yet, he seems to think he's an authority on the subject because he "Hates baby jesus" it automatically makes him a "skeptic" of some sorts. He thinks he belongs in the field when in doubt he doesnt. He's just reaching for a market for his crappy net radio show."


    LMAO! Because you hate baby jesus, it automatically makes you a skeptic???? What a moron! Science makes you a skeptic you hag.

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  10. Regarding Tonya and using part of her own sentence: "Yet, she seems to think she's an authority on the subject because she can dream up a bunch of bullshit and con people into thinking she is really something." HOW 'BOUT THAT.

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  11. Hey Tonya,

    If you could tear yourself away from your self admiration for just a moment....We announced yesterday that we really have no more interest in the paranormal, and are taking a different route. So sorry we're not reaching for that market.

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  12. Reap, this is Tonya. Look, I'm sorry for calling you a pathetic drunk and passing rumors around the webernets about you. The truth is, I'm unhappy, sticky and I eat because I'm sad. It's a vicious cycle, and therefore, I'm overweight and mad at the world for my own stupidity. Please forgive me, Reap. To tell you the truth, I listen to your show all the time to learn how to do radio, even though I still suck at it, and have the personality of a three-year-old, retarded, spoiled rich-bitch drama-queen. Maybe I need help. Is there a twelve-step group for over-eaters like myself, or are well all doomed.

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  13. Oh Tonya, so glad you see the errors of your ways.

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  14. Bout damn time you told the truth!!!!

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  15. I wonder if Tonya realizes how she is making herself look. If an employer looks at the ghost divas facebook page which she is associated with and reads my blogs....they are going to see one huge bunch of shit talking drama. She is her own worse enemy. For 2 days now all she has done is rant.

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  16. I'm glad I do not know this person, I would have no patience for her and would be my own worse enemy in that I don't back down from stuff like that. We would probably fuel each other for months :P

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  17. Count your blessings, she's a waste of skin. Nothing but a mouth. All she does is talk shit about people, and when proven wrong, she never retracts her lies.

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  18. TONYA HACKER, TONYA HACKER, TONYA HACKER, TONYA HACKER! Wow, that's creepier then saying Bloody Mary in the mirror.

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  19. Maybe you should say it with a mouthful of smores...she rolls like that...or so I heard

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  20. did you say rolls?

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  21. Im glad to see you stand up for yourself Reap. Keep it comin man!

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  22. She is still at it, worse than ever. The bitterness in her is showing, maybe from being single for so long that it is hard to imagine that she ever had kids and was a Nun instead.

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